Intergenerational trauma may be impacting your menopause

 

Did you know that intergenerational trauma may be impacting your menopause…

Did you know our subconscious mind creates around 80-90% of our physical reality?

So, for example, if someone believes they will have a bad experience at menopause, that is what will be created in physical reality. Our subconscious is that powerful.

Science calls it ‘epigenetics’.

I often find with my clients that a lot of negative mindset issues aren’t always their own – as women we naturally carry much of our mother’s beliefs systems and programming, much like we inherit physical traits from our relations. In utero, we are impacted by our mother’s emotional state during pregnancy; her fears, worries, anxieties.. We were also once an egg in our grandmother’s womb. In practice, I've found that we can carry generational trauma up to 7 generations back. And we can also carry family trauma from our fathers (they are the product of an egg, after all!).

All of this has an impact on our physical health and make up, but can be instantly changed and transformed using Theta Healing.

Theta is incredible for getting to the root of healing emotional issues – what can take months or years to deal with in counselling or psychotherapy can be instantly identified and healed.

As one of my Menopause Revolution Programme clients, ‘S’ said:

"Coming from a professional background of psychotherapy this technique was very unusual in some ways but made sense when you understand we carry within us past intergenerational experiences and trauma that hasn’t been worked through. I was dumbfounded by the way Melissa got in touch with past generations and past life experiences of mine and shifted things for me in the present day".

So what does all of this have to do with perimenopause and menopause?

Well, in my experience a lot of our unhealed trauma, everything we have 'swept under the rug', will arise for healing at menopause so that we don't carry this into this next chapter of our lives. Clearing our own, and our inherited, ‘emotional baggage’ has a powerful effect on mind and body – in practice I have found that many physical symptoms have an ‘emotional root’.

I believe that we have 3 life stages as women - the virgin (or maiden), the mother, and the wise-woman. This third life stage, which we reach in menopause, is a golden opportunity to heal our past hurts and traumas so that we can thrive in this new life phase.   

Melissa x

 
Melissa Ayres